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Roman Catholic Priest, still in reasonalby good standing; aka: eminence, the emeritis cardinal archbishop of HGN

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Sister Monica And Her Ministry To The Transgendered Community

Sister Monica In Silence

                                             Religious News Services

Sister Monica’s Ministry To The Transgendered...

Since Leelah Alcorn walked out in front of a tractor trailer truck on an interstate highway in Cincinnati last winter I have been trying to educate myself about transgendered persons.

Story about Leelah Alcorn a transgenderd person who committed suicide in Cincinnati last December

Today this story about Sister Monica, a Roman Catholic Sister, caught my attention at the Huffington Post. For me Sister Monica is another one of those heroic nuns.

Sister Monica and her ministry to the transgendered community

Since first reading about Leelah Alcorn I have tried to learn more about transgenderd persons.  A friend who worked for a catholic religious order, told me this summer that she had a cousin who is trans. A good friend whom I am in regular contact with here where I live and is a therapist told me that he presently has three clients who are trans.

I completely appreciate Sister Monica’s response to the bible people who are stuck on the fact that the God they believe in created only man and woman. Sister Monica’s response is that the God of the Scriptures created not only day and night, but also the dusk and the dawn and twilight.

Another part of this article from the Huffington Post that attracted my attention is how Sister Monica, a Roman Catholic Sister, has to live in the shadows. Sister Monica according to the story lives a solitary life outside the boundaries of her convent and the Catholic University affiliated with her religious congregation.

Even in the age of Pope Francis a solitary life is forced on a Catholic Sister because of a backward theology of sexuality in the Roman Catholic Church. I identify with that solitary life because I am a gay man, a gay priest and have ministered in those shadows now for fifty years.

I just returned from meeting with a group of gay priests and brothers, a group I have connected with annually for at least the last twenty or twenty-five years. I was excited to be able to go this year. I have missed the past couple of years because I was caring for my aging mother.

There are several things I learned. There was a priest at the gathering, I had not met him before, I would call him a Vatican insider. He had strong opinions about Pope Francis. He stressed that Francis in large part is a media creation. My understanding is that the priest I was in contact with at this gathering knew Francis personally. He felt Francis was deeply homophobic. On the family synod he felt that the only progress would be some kind of administrative adjustment to people who were divorced and remarried. For me this sounds pretty realistic. Maybe there is room for miracles, but that will remain to be seen.

While there were wonderful opportunities to reconnect with old friends, I was pained by the story of one priest. He has been forced out of his order because in his ministerial life he came out as a gay man. He is now in the process of becoming an Episcopal priest. This is at mid-life for him. I have no regard at the moment for a church that claims to be welcoming when a priest who should be thanked for his years of service is forced out of his order and the church. I had begun to think that the phone where folks could call to report things they thought scary or heterodox was disconnected with the coming of Francis. It seems this is not the case.

So, I applaud Sister Monica and her ministry. I have a little knowledge myself of what it is to live in silence. For all the hoopla, the September visit of the Bishop of Rome to the United States may make some headlines. I do wonder whether it will advance the welcome or even understanding of the many gay, lesbian, and transgendered persons the Roman Catholic Church claims to care about. So much for the new evangelization

Sunday, June 28, 2015

Cincinnati Pride

Yesterday was a wonderful day. I went to the Pride celebration in Cincinnati with a long time friend. I have been back here almost four years. I was hoping to see a familiar face. I was not disappointed. A friend from long ago recognized the person I was with. We were all connected back years ago by our participation in Dignity. I got to meet the partner of the friend of my friend .

I was impressed with the youth of the crowd. Many are probably decades younger. We happened upon a speaker at the main podium who was a trans person. I listened for awhile and could hear her struggles. Yet, yesterday was a moment the oppressed finally were lifted up beyond all the ignorant and the haters. 

Cincinnati was in the national spotlight when another trans person who was rejected by her parents committed suicide by walking in front of a semi on an interstate highway this past spring. Even the conservative Cincinnati Enquirer took up Leelah Alcorn's cause.

Cincinnati Enquirer's Story About Leelah Alcorn

I saw one man in a roman collar with another in a franciscan habit in a wheelchair. I did not recognized them. When they left, there was a gaggle of other men folk, I assumed priests in chivies, who left together. 

We walked by three protesters on the way to Sawyer Point who were from Fred Phelps' infamous so called church with their sign that God hates fags.Later there was a group of evangelicals trying to engage the crowd. Both the evangelicals and a small group from the crowd were yelling to each other that they loved one another. I've decided it is pretty hopeless to try and engage evangelicals like this in a serious discussion. I walked by them with my friend and raised my hand in a priestly blessing for them...and the only words that came with my hand raised as I made the sign of the cross were: "Bénedic, Dómine, nos et haectua dona quae..." It's the blessing before a meal.

We were on our way to buy a beer;  but in  conservative Cincinnati that is starting to grow up, you have to buy tickets to take to the beer place before you get a beer. As fate would have it I was in the slowest line to get the tickets. However there was a very handsome man distributing the tickets in my line. He seemed to be taking a long time as he was talking to all the patrons. I decided when I got there, I would engage him in conversation. I noticed on his tee shirt that there was the name of what looked like a law firm. So I asked if he was a lawyer. He said "no."  Then, he added he was one of the plaintiffs in the Supreme Court Obergefell law suit. He was working as a volunteer for the Pride event. I simply said that this must be a wonderful day for you and offered him my congratulations.

By the way....Jim Obergefell is from Cincinnati. Mr. Obergefell got a call from President Obama on the occasion of this victory for equal rights.

President Obama Calls Jim Obergefell

Thursday, June 11, 2015

Small Steps, That's About All You Can Do When You're In A Pool Of Allegators

"Archbishop Blase Cupich, chosen by Francis last fall as Chicago archbishop, noted the effort U.S. bishops have made on behalf of  'individual employers, secular employers,' with religious objections to some laws. He argued church leaders should give equal ranking to changing U.S. immigration policy in their planning for the years ahead."  abc news...Nothing about GLBTQ issues, marriage equality , clergy sexual abuse, or the new  accountability of bishops.
abc news story

Saturday, May 30, 2015

The Bigots Can't Get It Right On The Irish Vote

Just Ignorant

The folks at Westboro Baptist Church were out to damn the Irish, but got the colors and flags mixed up. No wonder the Westboro Baptist  can't discern between sin and love.

A link to Westboro's stupidity.

religious bigots' stupidity